Hi, folks. This is Yash again. I am 23 and live in Pune. My email id is . Please mail your feedback. For chit chat ping me on hangouts. I am a horny guy, so any girl or aunty can contact me. I especially love divorced aunties. I have had very good experiences with them. I am a software engineer by profession. I have a lot of interest and experience in sex. I have been doing sex since I was 18. I also read a lot about sex in my free time. As a result, I have gathered a lot of knowledge about sex, what to do, what not to and how to do everything well. So, I am starting an informative series on Indian Sex Stories. It will have many parts and I will publish them at regular intervals. Don\u2019t worry, it will not be boring, save the story and read it when you are going to have sex. Knowing about proper sex can really improve your sex life. Let\u2019s start with oral sex. How to give a girl oral sex.<\/p>\n
Oral sex is up there with life\u2019s greatest pleasures. The secret to making it really good is simple\u2014you have to enjoy both the giving and receiving. Let\u2019s start with the basics:<\/p>\n
It\u2019s a treat, not a chore. Treat oral sex like it\u2019s a huge favor and the experience will be awful, no matter how practiced your tongue techniques. Giving your partner pleasure should be almost as fulfilling for you as for them. The best oral sessions are offered enthusiastically, not asked for and delivered begrudgingly.<\/p>\n
Ignore what they do in porn films. It\u2019s totally misleading. In porn movies, they pull back when he\u2019s giving her oral so you can see what\u2019s going on. In real life, you can\u2019t normally see what\u2019s happening because his face is pressed against you, and it feels better like that. And in porn movies girls deep-throat everyone\u2014you don\u2019t have to in real life, and guys suck hard on clitorises, pulling them out like they\u2019re made of chewing gum. Do that in real life and you\u2019ll never see her genitals up close and personal again (or her, for that matter).<\/p>\n
Give each other guidance. I think a good \u201clet\u2019s learn about each other\u201d session works well about the fifth or sixth time you\u2019ve slept together because you\u2019ve got over that initial shyness. Start by talking about what you like, then demonstrate. He can suck her finger to show what he likes, she can lick his palm to do the same. Then try it out on your actual bits. Do it with the lights on or in daylight\u2014he, especially, needs to see what he\u2019s doing. Instruct, don\u2019t order, and be tactful. \u201cThat feels great,\u201d or \u201cI liked the other way better,\u201d works better than, \u201cStop now. I hate it.\u201d<\/p>\n
It\u2019s about connection. Everyone is individual and to be the best your partner ever had, you\u2019ve got to be constantly on the alert for their reaction to whatever you\u2019re trying. It\u2019s good to use different techniques but the main aim is to give that particular person pleasure. Timing is crucial as well.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s got to be reciprocal. I\u2019m not saying you both have to do each other in the same session but I am saying it should even up over time. If your partner wants you to do it to them but won\u2019t ever reciprocate, refuse. It\u2019s selfish, unfair, and totally unacceptable.<\/p>\n
Giving her oral
\nPick your position<\/p> \n\n
She takes ages. Try her seated, slouched forward in a chair, or sitting on the kitchen worktop. Get her to slide forward, so her crotch is on the edge of the chair or surface. Put pillows under your knees for comfort and to get the height right. This makes it easier on your neck, means you can use your fingers, and see exactly what you\u2019re doing. Get her to put her feet on your shoulders or something else close by (though preferably not the dinner you\u2019ve just cooked).<\/p>\n
She\u2019s fussy or you\u2019re unsure what she really wants. Get her to straddle your face. You\u2019re lying on your back, she then climbs on board, facing in both direction (depending on whether you\u2019re a breast or bottom man!) and balances by putting her hands on the wall or bedhead. She\u2019s got control over everything in this position because she can lift or lower to position herself just so. There\u2019s something fabulously filthy about it as well. Put a pillow under your neck and it\u2019s quite relaxed, though some guys feel a bit suffocated in this position. If she crouches too low, it can be the female equivalent of you pushing the back of her head.<\/p>\n
She\u2019s self-conscious. Stick to the traditional pose of her lying on her back, while you lie between her legs. It\u2019s relaxing for her, she doesn\u2019t feel exposed, and she can do whatever it takes to get there\u2014concentrate\/ fantasize\/recite the alphabet. To make things comfy, put a pillow under her ass and one under your chest.<\/p>\n
She\u2019s begging for it. She stands, you kneel in front of her. This is perfect for urgent sex plus it appeals
\nto alpha females who like seeing you shamelessly submissive in front of them. If she goes weak at the knees, literally, and can\u2019t stand any longer\u2014or can\u2019t orgasm standing up (some can\u2019t)\u2014get her to lean against a wall or pull her to the floor to continue. Another good position for confident girls: get her on all fours on the bed, then simply slide in underneath, putting your head on pillows so you can reach.<\/p>\n
Take her to heaven<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t just rip her panties off and bury your face. Instead, lick through her panties. Long, wet, teasing licks. Then push them to one side, get really close\u2014 and simply breathe on her for a second or two, followed by one single, deliciously debilitating lick. Tease further by pushing them back into place and continuing to lick through the fabric. \u2013 Peel her knickers off totally and take a moment to just look at her. Look back at her face, say \u201cGod, you\u2019re gorgeous,\u201d and then kiss your way down from her tummy to her thighs.<\/p>\n
Assuming you\u2019ve done lots of finger foreplay she should be open. If her labia lips are closed, use your nose to do the job. It also lets her know you aren\u2019t put off by her smell or secretions.<\/p>\n
Consciously relax your tongue, and your neck and facial muscles. It will stop you getting stiff and will feel better her end. Don\u2019t tense your tongue and make it pointy, relax it so it\u2019s wide and soft and can cover a larger area.<\/p>\n
Make sure you\u2019ve got plenty of saliva in your mouth so your tongue\u2019s slippery rather than sandpapery, then lay it flat in between the lips of her labia, swishing it ever-so-gently to provide soft but pulsating pressure. The whole of your mouth will be against her (remember what I said about forgetting what you\u2019ve seen in the porn movies?).<\/p>\n
Be constantly aware of her body language. If she lets out a little cry when you first stimulate her clitoris,
\nit\u2019s not necessarily a good sign. It can be a cry of pain. What\u2019s your tongue doing? Really strong licking with a tensed tongue feels bloody awful. Some women like their clitoris sucked, like they do in porn movies, but most hate it! Give it up and try a gentler technique.<\/p>\n
While the clitoris is definitely the star of the show, don\u2019t focus exclusively on it, to begin with. Try stiffening your tongue and pushing it inside her like a pretend penis or swirling it in circles just a little way in (most of the nerves are in the first inch anyway). Take a break to move up and lick her breasts, biting her neck, stroke and lick her thighs, the area between her anus and vagina, or try rimming (licking around her anus). Then get back to work on the little man in the boat, trying any or all of the following: long licks with the flat of your tongue, a fluttering side-to-side motion, circles, and zig-zags. Mix it up by using combinations of fast, slow, soft, and firmer (note I said \u201cfirmer\u201d not hard) techniques.<\/p>\n
Lick, don\u2019t flick. You\u2019ll probably find she likes licking more than flicking. \u201cI hate it when they flick it\u201d was one of the most common responses I got when asking girls which oral techniques they did and didn\u2019t like.<\/p>\n
A really simple way to find her hottest spot is to trace a figure-eight with your tongue or lick all the letters of the alphabet (lower case is better because the letters are curlier). Both techniques stop any one part of the clitoris from being overstimulated. It\u2019s also great tongue-training. Practice on your palm\u2014bet your tongue hurts before you get to mmmmm.<\/p>\n
Just like with intercourse, most women end up settling on two or three favorite strokes, with one as the guaranteed-to-get-me-there. The time to find this out is at the beginning, change techniques as she\u2019s about to come and she\u2019ll never, ever (ever) forgive you.<\/p>\n
When you know her favorite place to be licked, tease her in another session by going close to it but not quite there. Occasionally move your tongue to where she wants it. It\u2019s cruel\u2014and she\u2019ll get annoyed if you do it too long\u2014but also hot as hell if you want to get her to begging point. (Or want to get out of doing the dishes.)<\/p>\n
Starting to wonder if it\u2019s ever going to happen … and it\u2019s only been five minutes? Dear, oh dear, did they teach you nothing in school? (Sorry, I forgot\u2014they don\u2019t! Most countries have an appalling sex education system.) It\u2019s probably going to take a lot longer than that, my lovely, so settle in. While you might take an average of four minutes to orgasm, she can do the same if she\u2019s super turned-on but might also take up to 15\u201320 minutes. Help her get there faster by \u2026<\/p>\n
Adding fingers. Either thrust your fingers inside her or make a \u201cV\u201d with your index and middle finger and slide them back and forth with the clitoris in between, as you continue licking. Or get her to put her fingers inside herself while you lick. Reach up and squeeze her breasts.<\/p>\n
Resist the urge to go faster in an attempt to get her to orgasm quicker. If anything, slow down. The gentler and slower and more consistent you are, the quicker she\u2019ll get there. (Though it\u2019s not a race to get to the finish line even if that is where the \u201cintercourse\u201d flag tantalizingly waves.)<\/p>\n
If she\u2019s not even close but you\u2019re so tired you\u2019re losing the will to live, do one of two things. Either reach down and grab the small vibe you\u2019ve put beside the bed for that purpose and hold it close to the clitoris as you continue to lick (or kiss her instead and just let the vibe do its stuff). Or simply ask her if she wants to stop and\/or move on to something else.<\/p>\n
If she seems close but your attention is wavering and your tongue\u2019s tired, the advice is completely different. I don\u2019t care what it takes but do NOT stop! Imagine you\u2019ll win a million dollars if you just keep going that little bit longer. Imagine you\u2019re having a threesome with Angelina Jolie, Pamela Anderson, and the hot girl you see on the train every morning. Or the hot guy. Do whatever it takes to eke that final little bit more out of that weary, weary tongue. And if you honestly can\u2019t keep moving it, just press it firmly and let her move against you for a few seconds, licking again the second you recover. (Don\u2019t change techniques, go straight back to what you were doing.) Continue throughout her orgasm (perhaps upping the speed and pressure a little just before it) and\u2014 crucially\u2014do not stop until she pushes you away. Her orgasm lasts way, way longer than yours does.<\/p>\n
Some women love you to immediately penetrate the second it\u2019s over, while they\u2019re still riding the waves.<\/p>\n
If you do, you can set off a further set of scrumptious contractions. Others need time to recuperate and want to lie there panting for a bit. The good news is, she won\u2019t do what you do and roll over and go to sleep. Her body doesn\u2019t release the sleep hormone yours does, to get her ready for another round. Most of us can keep going without a recharge. Though chocolate and a glass of bubbly wouldn\u2019t go amiss in the breaks.<\/p>\n \n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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